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halloween

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Halloween Origins (from The History Channel)

Halloween’s origins date back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in). The Celts, who lived 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. Celts believed that on the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. On the night of October 31, they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. In addition to causing trouble and damaging crops, Celts thought that the presence of the otherworldly spirits made it easier for the Druids, or Celtic priests, to make predictions about the future. For a people entirely dependent on the volatile natural world, these prophecies were an important source of comfort and direction during the long, dark winter.

To commemorate the event, Druids built huge sacred bonfires, where the people gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other’s fortunes. When the celebration was over, they re-lit their hearth fires, which they had extinguished earlier that evening, from the sacred bonfire to help protect them during the coming winter.

By A.D. 43, Romans had conquered the majority of Celtic territory. In the course of the four hundred years that they ruled the Celtic lands, two festivals of Roman origin were combined with the traditional Celtic celebration of Samhain. The first was Feralia, a day in late October when the Romans traditionally commemorated the passing of the dead. The second was a day to honor Pomona, the Roman goddess of fruit and trees. The symbol of Pomona is the apple and the incorporation of this celebration into Samhain probably explains the tradition of “bobbing” for apples that is practiced today on Halloween.

By the 800s, the influence of Christianity had spread into Celtic lands. In the seventh century, Pope Boniface IV designated November 1 All Saints’ Day, a time to honor saints and martyrs. It is widely believed today that the pope was attempting to replace the Celtic festival of the dead with a related, but church-sanctioned holiday. The celebration was also called All-hallows or All-hallowmas (from Middle English Alholowmesse meaning All Saints’ Day) and the night before it, the night of Samhain, began to be called All-hallows Eve and, eventually, Halloween. Even later, in A.D. 1000, the church would make November 2 All Souls’ Day, a day to honor the dead. It was celebrated similarly to Samhain, with big bonfires, parades, and dressing up in costumes as saints, angels, and devils. Together, the three celebrations, the eve of All Saints’, All Saints’, and All Souls’, were called Hallowmas.

Sunday October 31, 2004

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Halloween Origins (from The History Channel)

Halloween’s origins date back to the ancient Celtic festival of Samhain (pronounced sow-in). The Celts, who lived 2,000 years ago in the area that is now Ireland, the United Kingdom, and northern France, celebrated their new year on November 1. This day marked the end of summer and the harvest and the beginning of the dark, cold winter, a time of year that was often associated with human death. Celts believed that on the night before the new year, the boundary between the worlds of the living and the dead became blurred. On the night of October 31, they celebrated Samhain, when it was believed that the ghosts of the dead returned to earth. In addition to causing trouble and damaging crops, Celts thought that the presence of the otherworldly spirits made it easier for the Druids, or Celtic priests, to make predictions about the future. For a people entirely dependent on the volatile natural world, these prophecies were an important source of comfort and direction during the long, dark winter.

To commemorate the event, Druids built huge sacred bonfires, where the people gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other’s fortunes. When the celebration was over, they re-lit their hearth fires, which they had extinguished earlier that evening, from the sacred bonfire to help protect them during the coming winter.

By A.D. 43, Romans had conquered the majority of Celtic territory. In the course of the four hundred years that they ruled the Celtic lands, two festivals of Roman origin were combined with the traditional Celtic celebration of Samhain. The first was Feralia, a day in late October when the Romans traditionally commemorated the passing of the dead. The second was a day to honor Pomona, the Roman goddess of fruit and trees. The symbol of Pomona is the apple and the incorporation of this celebration into Samhain probably explains the tradition of “bobbing” for apples that is practiced today on Halloween.

By the 800s, the influence of Christianity had spread into Celtic lands. In the seventh century, Pope Boniface IV designated November 1 All Saints’ Day, a time to honor saints and martyrs. It is widely believed today that the pope was attempting to replace the Celtic festival of the dead with a related, but church-sanctioned holiday. The celebration was also called All-hallows or All-hallowmas (from Middle English Alholowmesse meaning All Saints’ Day) and the night before it, the night of Samhain, began to be called All-hallows Eve and, eventually, Halloween. Even later, in A.D. 1000, the church would make November 2 All Souls’ Day, a day to honor the dead. It was celebrated similarly to Samhain, with big bonfires, parades, and dressing up in costumes as saints, angels, and devils. Together, the three celebrations, the eve of All Saints’, All Saints’, and All Souls’, were called Hallowmas.

baby love

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Yesterday I said I love the babies.

I do.

I love the two boys. I do. To me, however, there is something so special about the girls. I’m drawn to them in a way that I’m not with the boys.

I was talking to a friend yesterday and told him this. I told him that I see their potential. I see the opportunities that even I, their grandmothers, and their great-grandmothers didn’t have. I see the possibilities.

I don’t want them to have to struggle in the same ways we may have had to do.

He, in all of his wisdom and insight, said to me that he thought it was even more than that.

I had a difficult childhood. He said it stems from this.

He said that he thinks I see them as pure and unharmed. He said he sees me as wanting to protect them, to allow them to grow in a world where they don’t have to go through the same things I did. I want to see them grow up unharmed.

He’s right. I do.

I see my 5-year-old niece who is so much like me that it’s scary, and I see in her something so powerful and amazing. I would do anything to stop her from being harmed. I would do anything for her to know that she’s amazing and loved and cherished. And she does.

My new niece deserves no less. She deserves to be cherished and loved and treated like the precious gift she is.

The girls are special to me. Maybe I see a piece of me in them. Maybe I see the innocence of myself that I love in them.

I want to nourish and cultivate that. I want them to be able to live life happily and fully and without all of the baggage that I grew up with.

They deserve that.

Saturday October 30, 2004

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Yesterday I said I love the babies.

I do.

I love the two boys.  I do.  To me, however, there is something so special about the girls.  I’m drawn to them in a way that I’m not with the boys.

I was talking to a friend yesterday and told him this.  I told him that I see their potential.  I see the opportunities that even I, their grandmothers, and their great-grandmothers didn’t have.  I see the possibilities.

I don’t want them to have to struggle in the same ways we may have had to do.

He, in all of his wisdom and insight, said to me that he thought it was even more than that. 

I had a difficult childhood.  He said it stems from this.

He said that he thinks I see them as pure and unharmed.  He said he sees me as wanting to protect them, to allow them to grow in a world where they don’t have to go through the same things I did.  I want to see them grow up unharmed.

He’s right.  I do.

I see my 5-year-old niece who is so much like me that it’s scary, and I see in her something so powerful and amazing.  I would do anything to stop her from being harmed.  I would do anything for her to know that she’s amazing and loved and cherished.  And she does.

My new niece deserves no less.  She deserves to be cherished and loved and treated like the precious gift she is.

The girls are special to me.  Maybe I see a piece of me in them.  Maybe I see the innocence of myself that I love in them.

I want to nourish and cultivate that.  I want them to be able to live life happily and fully and without all of the baggage that I grew up with.

They deserve that.

patience

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I am learning to be patient. I am. Really. I am.

I tend to be a pretty patient person for the most part. I can put a lot of things out of my head and deal with them later so I don’t feel much impatience.

However, when my impatience rises, it rises fast and furious and it becomes a bit overbearing. I become stubborn. I let it rule what I’m doing.

I’m trying to remember to take a step back, consider the situation, assess the reasons for a delay, consider the possibilities of why I’m feeling impatient.

I’m not perfect. This doesn’t always work as planned. My impatience still runs away from me. It still creates some problems at times.

But I’m working on it.

I think, in the end, that is what is important. I know there is an issue and I’m working on it.

having my baby

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I got a call yesterday afternoon.

“Hi. This is your sister. (As if I wouldn’t know her voice.) I’m in the hospital.”

“You are? Is it time?”

“They’ve just given me the meds to induce.”

“Ohhh. Okay. Well, call me when you go into labor. I don’t want to hang out up there for 2 days like last time. Not that I’m not excited…but…”

I’m busy. I have a lot going on in my life. I’m going to school full time. I’m working full time. I have other things to do and don’t have a lot of time to hang around waiting for a baby to decide to come.

Ugh. This makes me sound heartless. I’m not. No one gets more excited about the babies than I do. That’s why I’m usually called first. Everyone knows how much I love my nieces and nephews.

A little later:

“Hey. Your sister told me to call you. We’re getting close, we think. She’s 7 cm and 90% effaced.”

“What does that mean? Is she going to have it soon?”

“I’d get here as soon as you can.”

“Can I wait until after work? Do you think there is time?”

“Oh, yeah…that’s only 25 minutes. Just get here quick.”

I got to the hospital and Lillyn was already there. She had arrived less than 5 minutes after my brother-in-law called me. I missed the birth.

Darn it.

It seems that everyone missed the birth except my sister (of course), my brother-in-law, and my mom.

My sister had this baby fast compared to her son. He took 2 days to get around to coming into the world.

I got there, though, and was so overwhelmed. Another beautiful girl to come into this world. She’s so soft. She’s so little. She has a healthy set of lungs. She has kissable little lips. She has a ton of hair. She has perfect little hands that gripped my finger and beautiful little fingernails.

We have another girl. I can’t begin to tell you how excited I am.

I love the babies.

As I was getting ready to leave, my sister said to me, “You have another baby without having to go through the labor.”

I smiled. It’s a joke. I tell her that her son is also mine because I was there during all of the labor and helped deliver him. He’s partly mine.

“Yes,” I said. “I have another baby.”

And she’s beautiful.

Friday October 29, 2004

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I got a call yesterday afternoon.

“Hi.  This is your sister.  (As if I wouldn’t know her voice.)  I’m in the hospital.”

“You are?  Is it time?”

“They’ve just given me the meds to induce.”

“Ohhh.  Okay.  Well, call me when you go into labor.  I don’t want to hang out up there for 2 days like last time.  Not that I’m not excited…but…”

I’m busy.  I have a lot going on in my life.  I’m going to school full time.  I’m working full time.  I have other things to do and don’t have a lot of time to hang around waiting for a baby to decide to come.

Ugh.  This makes me sound heartless.  I’m not.  No one gets more excited about the babies than I do.  That’s why I’m usually called first.  Everyone knows how much I love my nieces and nephews.

A little later:

“Hey.  Your sister told me to call you.  We’re getting close, we think.  She’s 7 cm and 90% effaced.”

“What does that mean?  Is she going to have it soon?”

“I’d get here as soon as you can.”

“Can I wait until after work?  Do you think there is time?”

“Oh, yeah…that’s only 25 minutes.  Just get here quick.”

I got to the hospital and Lyllyn was already there.  She had arrived less than 5 minutes after my brother-in-law called me.  I missed the birth.

Darn it.

It seems that everyone missed the birth except my sister (of course), my brother-in-law, and my mom.

My sister had this baby fast compared to her son.  He took 2 days to get around to coming into the world.

I got there, though, and was so overwhelmed.  Another beautiful girl to come into this world.  She’s so soft.  She’s so little.  She has a healthy set of lungs.  She has kissable little lips.  She has a ton of hair.  She has perfect little hands that gripped my finger and beautiful little fingernails.

We have another girl.  I can’t begin to tell you how excited I am.

I love the babies.

As I was getting ready to leave, my sister said to me, “You have another baby without having to go through the labor.”

I smiled.  It’s a joke.  I tell her that her son is also mine because I was there during all of the labor and helped deliver him.  He’s partly mine.

“Yes,” I said.  “I have another baby.”

And she’s beautiful.

 

baseball

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WOOHOO!

Okay…you KNOW what I’m talking about, right? Any of you who have been regular readers of my blog know what a baseball lover that I am.

The Red Sox won! Wow, wow, wow! Can you believe it?

I don’t typically go for the American League teams. I think they cheat at the game. They use a designated hitter, after all. That drives me crazy.

However, there is probably no other team, other than my beloved Cubbies, that I would have wanted to win the World Series.

The Cubs and the Red Sox are steeped in tradition. They play in the old-time stadiums. They have histories that are older than most Americans. They have been a part of baseball almost since the beginning.

Both teams have generations of fans.

I almost cried when the BoSox won last night.

This is what I love about baseball.

Thursday October 28, 2004

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WOOHOO!

Okay…you KNOW what I’m talking about, right?  Any of you who have been regular readers of my blog know what a baseball lover that I am.

The Red Sox won!  Wow, wow, wow!  Can you believe it?

I don’t typically go for the American League teams.  I think they cheat at the game.  They use a designated hitter, after all.  That drives me crazy.

However, there is probably no other team, other than my beloved Cubbies, that I would have wanted to win the World Series.

The Cubs and the Red Sox are steeped in tradition.  They play in the old-time stadiums.  They have histories that are older than most Americans.  They have been a part of baseball almost since the beginning.

Both teams have generations of fans.

I almost cried when the BoSox won last night.

This is what I love about baseball.

out of nowhere

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I realized something yesterday.

Many of us feel like we’re alone in this world but when we really need someone, people step up and offer a hand.

I have a friend who recently had her gallbladder removed because it was almsot ready to burst. She was in extreme pain but still managed to drive herself to the hospital and check herself in.

She drove herself because she didn’t want to bother anyone.

She’s a single woman without children. She is strong and independent. She doesn’t ask for help very often. She doesn’t want to intrude on other people’s lives. She doesn’t want to bother other people.

This week, she had to ask for help. She couldn’t move. She couldn’t get out of bed to feed herself.

I was talking to her on the phone yesterday and she said to me that she was amazed at all of the people who had signed her get-well cards and had contributed to a basket for her. I told her that I thought she probably didn’t realize what an impact she made on other people’s lives. She said she didn’t. I told her that talking to her is like being in the safest place. It doesn’t matter if you’re crying or laughing, you always feel good when you walk away from talking to her because she has a manner that gives you peace.

She said to me that she thought about me during this ordeal. She said, “You live so far out. What if this happened to you? Who would take care of you? Would you call anyone? Would you let anyone in?”

She told me that she wanted to be there for me if something happened to me.

I was overwhelmed by that. I don’t know if it was the medication or her pain or her very emotional state speaking at that moment. It doesn’t really matter.

What matters is that she reached out a hand and I took it and said thank you.

She touched me. Deeply.

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