internet

crushin’

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For the last month, I’ve been pretty much bed-bound. I’ve been very sick, venturing out only to teach, then heading right back home to bed to sleep. It hasn’t been a whole lot of fun.

In all of that downtime, I spent a lot of it online to amuse myself (as if I don’t spend a lot of time online anyway! Hah!). I followed link after link, learning about new people, following their blogs, their twitters, their other social networks. And then, out of the blue, it happened. I mean this kind of thing NEVER happens to me. It just doesn’t. I don’t get starry-eyed over many men, let alone those with some celebrity. But it happened.

I got a crush. On someone TOTALLY out of my league. I mean, we will never meet. Ever. Well, maybe someday, but you know what I mean. We move in completely different circles.

I was telling someone about this embarrassing, secret (not-so-secret anymore, is it?) crush. He said he could see why I developed this crush. The man is obviously intelligent, seems well-read, seems to be comfortable in his skin, can articulate himself in the written word (my favorite type), and is interesting. Then he said to me (as he stood in his office on campus (UMN campus, East Bank, if you must know) looking out a window), but you are surrounded by intelligent, well-read, articulate men. You’re in the perfect place for it! You’re going to school at a top university, pursuing a PhD in a field that is full of well-written men. Maybe you should look closer to home, he says.

Uhhh…what? That would require me actually TALKING to someone. And as anyone who knows me knows, I’m not the most outgoing person. I’m pretty introverted. Talk to a man — who may be potential partner material? Eek! I mean really. I can talk to male colleagues, professors, students, etc. But…seriously. I don’t talk to THOSE men.

The days wore on. I read more about my secret crush (and to those of you who know who I’m talking about, please don’t say his name on this blog — it would lead to my certain humiliation, and I don’t need that right now). I read more and more. I followed more links. And I still liked him — for his expertise in his field. But I realized that it would be an unrequited crush, and not worth spending too much time thinking about.

Plus, you know, it would be hard to compare any mere mortal to him. He is, after all, a celebrity.

stacy snyder

identity crisis

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I have recently been asked to present to several campus groups (at different times) regarding the issue of identity in socialstacy snyder networks.  I guess, in some way, I’m considered the campus expert on this issue because it is what I’m doing my research on and it is something I’m constantly thinking about, working on, and researching.  One of the things that one of the groups asked me to cover is the issue of problems that we can create with a seemingly innocuous identity construction.  In particular, it seems that they want me to use the scare tactics to show how dangerous it can be to do certain things with your online identity — how it can cause the loss of a job, the denial of credit, the missed opportunity of graduate school.

Phoenix news channel 5, KPHO, ran a segment at the end of November about some Phoenix area school teacher’s MySpace pages (you can see the video at the link and read the article). The first sentence of the article states

CBS 5 Investigates discovered some Valley teachers making their private lives public by posting them on the Web.

Our private lives have often been public.  We go out to bars, hang out with friends, take pictures, do stupid things.  The thing is, we’re now posting it on the Web where it can be found by nearly anyone.  In the past, it used to be only the people who were physically present who could be a danger to our careers.  Now it’s any person who gets upset by someone taking a drink, dressing in a silly costume, or flipping someone off.  Unfortunately, the biased perspective of the reporter made this whole thing into a witch hunt.

Today’s NYTimes shared an article about  Stacy Snyder, a 25-year-old student teacher who’s MySpace page had her dismissed from her student teaching program.

In the absence of strong protections for employees, poorly chosen words or even a single photograph posted online in one’s off-hours can have career-altering consequences. Stacy Snyder, 25, who was a senior at Millersville University in Millersville, Pa., offers an instructive example. Last year, she was dismissed from the student teaching program at a nearby high school and denied her teaching credential after the school staff came across her photograph on her MySpace profile. She filed a lawsuit in April this year in federal court in Philadelphia contending that her rights to free expression under the First Amendment had been violated. No trial date has been set.

Her photo, preserved at the “Wired Campus” blog of the Chronicle of Higher Education, turns out to be surprisingly innocuous. In a head shot snapped at a costume party, Ms. Snyder, with a pirate’s hat perched atop her head, sips from a large plastic cup whose contents cannot be seen. When posting the photo, she fatefully captioned her self-portrait “drunken pirate,” though whether she was serious can’t be determined by looking at the photo.

This kind of snap judgment on the part of a school worries me.  I know that the students in my classes have had MySpace and Facebook pages.  I have seen some of them.  I know that some of them have created YouTube videos.  I have seen them.  While I would not put up the same things on my pages, I understand why they are doing it.  I have a feeling that if I had had access to the Internet when I was younger, I may have been doing the same thing.  I wouldn’t have been thinking about the consequences but I would have been thinking about having fun and enjoying my time with my friends.

They are adults.  They do need to take responsibility.  However, I also believe that we, as a society, need to lighten up.  We are so judgmental about these kinds of things.  We are so hypocritical about them.  I can bet that the same people who are angry about a young woman being photographed with a cup in her hand have probably had a drink or two in their lives as well. Heck, I’ve been out drinking with some of my instructors.  It made me like them more because I knew that they were just like me–human, fallible, flawed, and fun.

I’m not a first grader or the parent of a first grader.  I know that my view may be skewed because of that.  But there needs to be a balance.  Or do we have to start hiding everything? Are we going to go back to J. Edgar Hoover’s time when we had to be secretive about everything so we wouldn’t be brought before Congress, and yet the very man doing the hunting had his own skeletons?

Online identities do need to be considered.  We also need to be a bit more balanced and less reactionary.

geek squad

hodge podge

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Some news items for today.

Podnova is a cool site that is, according to their website:

Your place to find podcasts, videoblogs and stay informed on your favourite blogs. With PodNova you can subscribe, listen, view, read and maintain your feeds online

podnovaI listen to a LOT of podcasts (around 50), view at least 15 different videocasts (if not more), and read over 300 RSS feeds a day. Yes, a day. That’s a lot of media that I’m taking in during the day. Often I will listen to podcasts while at work, doing simple web development (I’m not good at listening well while doing editing — it’s just too hard to separate the thoughts and words from one another). So imagine my delight when I find a site that helps me find cool new podcasts and videocasts to check out. (The PodCast Awards are also a good place to find some good podcasts.)

The Geek Squad has a great “contest” going on right now. It’s not really a contest but it has that air to it. It reallygeek squad is a great opportunity for thinkers and budding inventors to share their ideas on how to improve our use, reuse, and recycling of technology products. It is also a chance to share an innovative idea on how to change the ways we look at these goods and how to take them into underprivileged communities. What is the “contest” part of this endeavor? The providers of the best ideas get to join big thinkers at the 2007 IdeaFest in Louisville. If you think you have some good ideas, send them in. Your idea may be put to good use and you could make a difference for a lot of people.

dr. cindy mestonThe biggest news on the ‘net yesterday seemed to be a study by University of Texas at Austin Psychology professors Cindy Meston and David Buss. Whatever could they have been talking about? Is it:

an insight into road rage,
anti-social behaviors, or
the reasons people have sex?

Have you heard about this one? Drs. Buss and Meston wrote a paper for the Archives of Sexual Behavior on whydr. david buss humans have sex (pdf file). And the reasons for our sexual behaviors are as varied as we are. In fact, they came up with 237 reasons humans have sex (now I’m going to have to think of at least 20 reasons why I would LIKE to have sex, someday, with someone). According to the University website,

The Texas psychologists identified four major factors and 13 sub-factors for why people have sex:

  • Physical reasons such as to reduce stress (“It seemed like good exercise”), feel pleasure (“It’s exciting”), improve or expand experiences (“I was curious about sex”), and the physical desirability of their partner (“The person was a good dancer”).
  • Goal-based reasons, including utilitarian or practical considerations (“I wanted to have a baby”), social status (“I wanted to be popular”) and revenge (“I wanted to give someone else a sexually transmitted disease”).
  • Emotional reasons such as love and commitment (“I wanted to feel connected”) and expression (“I wanted to say ‘thank you’”).
  • Insecurity-based reasons, including self-esteem (“I wanted the attention”), a feeling of duty or pressure (“My partner kept insisting”) and to guard a mate (“I wanted to keep my partner from straying”).

Some of those reasons I totally get. It feels good, it helps relieve stress (and I sleep better), and I’m attracted to my partner are all good reasons to engage in sex. But to transmit a disease, to get a job promotion, or to break up another’s relationship are just so beyond me. Why would you intentionally give someone a disease? And if you think that promotion is going to stick or make you feel good, you’ve got another thing coming. Karma, baby, is a bitch when you use your body to hurt another. Seriously. Grow up. Adults seriously think this way? Really?

Those kinds of reasons just reaffirm why I’m not having sex and don’t like to be around people too much. Just too much manipulation, dishonesty, and lack of respect for one another (and, in turn, ourselves if we are taking part in those kinds of actions) going on.

Honestly, I’d prefer to have good sex. Sex out of revenge probably isn’t as good as sex out of love and respect.

clipperz

travel and safety

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No, this isn’t a post about homeland security or TSA agents giving me the wand (although that always seems to happen when I travel, strangely enough). It is about two different online services that I’m curious about.

The first site is Tango Diva. It is a travel site for women, by women, and about women’stango diva issues in traveling alone. The about page states

Teresa took to the friendly skies to find some solace and inner peace, and this time alone. She hit London, Paris, and New York on a whirlwind summer tour, but with no guidebook for the solo gal available, she had to overcome the treacherous travels she encountered all by herself.

This got me to thinking…are there really treacherous travels in London, Paris, and New York? Especially for a single woman? I haven’t been to Paris but I lived in London and I traveled that city on my own for almost all of the time I was there. I never felt unsafe or that anything was remotely treacherous.

I’m heading to NYC in July (by way of Boston and Troy, NY). While I have a cousin there, I will be driving in on my own, depositing my car at JFK, and then doing a lot of things on my own while my cousin works. Out of any city that I’ve ever visited, NYC is probably the only one that carries a little fear for me…and mostly it’s because of what I’ve read or heard on TV. My friends and family have said that because I’ve traveled so much, I will be fine. I know how to act, how to check out my surroundings, etc. But…do I need a web site for women about traveling alone? Would it be wise to be a part of a community of solo female travelers? Have any of you or the women in your life ever used that site?

clipperzThe second site is Clipperz. It’s an online password / secret storage manager. I thought this might be a good idea for several reasons, not the least that I have so many passwords and they aren’t totally secure right now. I know, I know — I should have them much more secure than they are. And I should know better (well, I do).

I’ve read up on this and other online password management systems quite a bit. This one was reviewed in Lifehacker and it sounds promising. It sounds like there are quite a few safeguards to protect me and my secrets.

Has anyone used this one? What kinds of concerns or questions would you have about it?

startup countdown

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When I lived in the Bay Area, I worked for a small startup. This startup (name not mentioned because it never went any further) wanted to become the next e-commerce solution, the shopping cart of all shopping carts.

The thing is, though, that they went too far, too fast. They started paying engineers with the big bonuses and the then coveted BMW z3. So this little company tried to keep up with the big boys and offered the same to prospective employees. The problem was that they didn’t actually have the capital to do that. We had nice offices in Palo Alto, just up the street from Yahoo, Intel, and Stanford. We had a kitchen filled with food and drinks. We had the top computers available. We had everything anyone could ever hope for. But it was too much. We were too greedy (I was only a peon, but still…).

Whether or not you use Zooomr, there are things to know about this up and coming company. They aren’t out spending money they don’t have.

CEO Thomas Hawk took out a second mortgage to finance this venture. Kristopher Tate spends so many hours working on the issues that he actually fell asleep, on camera, in the Technorati offices. Zoli Erdos writes

No status update anywhere on Zooomr’ site or blog: the only “information” available is watching Kristopher Tate sleep live on Ustream.tv. OK, he needs to sleep.. but when he wakes up around 11am, he spends another hour in bed chatting on Ustream.tv. Dude, your system is down, but now you have all the hardware you need get out of bed, do something!

Dude…the guy worked all friggin’ night to make sure your photos would be back up. Give him a little space. He’s not a machine. He needs downtime, too!

Yes, the site has been down for twelve days. Earl Moore writes

I have no sympathy for any IT shop/service letting themselves get into this mess. It’s unbelievable poor planning and management. It’s irresponsible and there should be some accountability. It deserves to fail.

But this is the thing…it is not just Hawk and Tate that would lose out on this if Zooomr were to fail (which I don’t believe it will). It would also be the community — a community that has strengthened as the going got tough. This community that has rallied around the live feeds has not faltered in their belief that this venture will succeed. I think, sometimes, this is what keeps Hawk and Tate going. Without that support, they wouldn’t have as much positive energy to keep going.

Thomas Hawk made a strong statement when he wrote,

It’s easy for people to take potshots at Zooomr when we are down. But we will be back up. We will get back online. And these growing pains will be a part of our history. But we will always remember the people who stood by us in our troubles and I think the support that they are giving us is something that you can’t understand because what they know that you may not is that we are doing this for them.

Indeed, Thomas…how many people, heck, companies, can say that? We know you’re doing it for us.

This is about community much more than about some guy getting lots of credit for something. Sure, Hawk and Tate are the names behind the company. But we, the users, are the people who make that site viable. We will be the ones that help them realize their dreams and, in return, our own dreams.

For that, I keep rooting for zooomr, the little photo sharing site that could…

my worth

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I did it. I succumbed. I’m tweating on twitter. See…over there –> in the sidebar? Now you know what I’m doing. Aren’t you glad? I’m sure you are. :-)

I’ve also updated my links to include my del.icio.us, zooomr, facebook, myspace, twitter, and matador pages. I am officially huntable now. I’m hooked up.

Mostly, I started my facebook and myspace pages because I needed to understand those communities in order to continue with my academic research. I didn’t want to just blow them off simply because I had a professional disdain for them. They are ok. They suit a purpose. But I would still rather post here. This is my space.

And speaking of web2.0 applications (because that’s what we were doing up above there), how many of you use wikis? I recently did a workshop on wikis (it’s still not uploaded but will be in the future) and found that very few people understood the collaborative qualities of wikis. This video, done by Lee LeFever at CommonCraft, shows how wikis work in the simplest of terms. I think I may use this in future workshops.


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They also have a video to describe RSS in easy terms.

I found this via maryam in marrakesh:


My blog is worth $465,180.96.
How much is your blog worth?

If only. I could sell my soul off and buy…ummm…well…some really nice lenses and a new MacBookPro. Yeah.

Because, you know, my blog holds my soul.

zooomr logo

powerful mojo

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zooomr logoThere are happy stories out there. It’s always amazing to me when they happen on a grand scale and bring together diverse sets of people to make something really special happen.

I belong to Flickr, but I also belong to Zooomr. While they are both photo-sharing sites, they are very different. I enjoy them both for very different reasons.

Zooomr has been going through some growing pains. Kristopher Tate, the boy-wonder developer of Zooomr, and Thomas Hawk, the CEO, have been trying to launch the newest version of Zooomr, MarkIII for the past week. At every turn, they’ve hit a wall that shouldn’t have been there. They’ve been amazingly optimistic throughout it all, though. I have spoken with both of them while this launch has been trying to happen. Thomas is loads of fun and was cracking me up with some of his antics (seriously, hearing him sing along with William Shatner has got to be the highlight of anyone’s evening — hah!). In addition, he set me up with a fellow photographer and kept dedicating songs to us…I think nuptials are in the works. Heh.

Robert Scoble came by to give support in the chat channels (and we’ve spoken several times since my flub up the other day).

Despite some naysayers, the positivity behind the delayed launch has been amazing. The community of Zooomr users has really rallied and has given incredible support to Tate and Hawk. This outpouring of community has reaffirmed my faith in people and community and social responsibility. We feel like we belong to something that is bigger than all of us but also inclusive of us. This is something that will benefit everyone and we’re willing to stand by and be ready to take part when the new version does launch later this week.

Beyond the users, though, some corporate names in the online community have come forward. Zoho has offered space in their datacenter and are currently assisting Tate and Hawk in getting their servers back up and running. Sun Microsystems has offered to loan a 42 terabyte server to Zooomr to assist in the launch. Companies that have no stock in Zooomr are stepping up to the plate to lend a helping hand.

It’s one thing when the community pulls together. We do have a stake in what is happening. It’s an entirely different matter when companies jump in. Altruism is not dead. Not by a long shot.

just…shut up!

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I am fairly socially inept. No, no…it’s true. I am.

I know that people who know me will say that I do just fine. But it’s not true. I stick my foot in my mouth far more often than I should — simply because I don’t stop, think, and then speak.

So, I’m on a chat channel talking to people from zooomr. Thomas Hawk, CEO of zooomr, and all-around well-known photographer, is in there. I’ve spoken with Thomas a few times and he has highlighted my photographs on the zooomr blog a few times. He’s a nice guy.

I realize, as we’re all talking, that I’m the only woman in the room. Or, at least, the only woman who is speaking. That’s ok. I can hold my own with the men. I don’t feel inferior on an intellectual basis nor on a technological basis. I can keep up with the conversations.

I’m doing fine. I’m only speaking when I actually feel like I have something to say. But, really, I don’t know any of these people. Thomas is the only one I’ve ever spoken to and I doubt he even remembers who I am.

Anyway…

His friend, Robert Scoble comes in. And then my demise begins.

Not only am I the only female speaking but all of the guys seem to know one another. All of them.

And then Scoble says something about Microsoft Vista and I make a wisecrack — something that my co-workers would laugh at and something that my friends and family would totally understand was a joke. But Scoble — ok, you do know him, right? He’s a Microsoft graduate who is a bigtime blogger and now has his own company and video shows. Scoble doesn’t get my warped sense of humor and comes back at me with some monetary facts.

Oops.

I say a mea culpa and try to make amends but it’s all over. He doesn’t acknowledge me again.

I screwed up. Of course he wouldn’t get my sense of humor. He doesn’t know me. He doesn’t know that I joke around far more than I’m serious and he doesn’t understand that teasing is a way for me to feel comfortable around people I don’t know.

Ahem.

So, here I am talking to people who I find interesting and insightful and I make a mistake.

Ouch.

I need to learn to just…shut…up.

designing a book with LyX

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Considering that I’m going to be taken a course in document design, usability, and accessibility, this site might prove to be useful.

From their About page:

LyX is an advanced open source document processor running on many Unix and some non-Unix platforms. It is called a “document processor”, because unlike standard word processors, LyX encourages an approach to writing based on the structure of your documents, not their appearance. LyX lets you concentrate on writing, leaving details of visual layout to the software. LyX automates formatting according to predefined rule sets, yielding consistency throughout even the most complex documents. LyX produces high quality, professional output — using LaTeX, an open source, industrial strength typesetting engine, in the background.

Works with Macs and PCs.

ftc to examine net neutrality

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From computerworld

August 22, 2006 (IDG News Service) — The Federal Trade Commission has formed an Internet Access Task Force to examine whether Net neutrality advocates’ fears of large broadband providers blocking or slowing Web content from competitors are justified, the agency’s chairwoman said.

Chairwoman Deborah Platt Majoras on Monday also called on lawmakers to be cautious about passing a Net neutrality law, which could prohibit broadband providers such as AT&T Inc. and Comcast Corp. from giving their own Internet content top priority, or from charging Web sites additional fees for faster service.

Net neutrality advocates are sincere in their concerns, Majoras said during a speech at the Progress & Freedom Foundation’s Aspen Summit in Colorado. “I just question the starting assumption that government regulation, rather than the market itself under existing laws, will provide the best solution to a problem,” she said.

New legal mandates often have “unintended consequences,” she said. But the FTC will investigate discriminatory practices from broadband providers, Majoras added.

“While I am sounding cautionary notes about new legislation, let me make clear that if broadband providers engage in anticompetitive conduct, we will not hesitate to act using our existing authority,” she said. “But I have to say, thus far, proponents of Net neutrality regulation have not come to us to explain where the market is failing or what anticompetitive conduct we should challenge.”

Public Knowledge, a consumer advocacy group, welcomed the FTC’s examination of Net neutrality.

“We certainly look forward to the analysis of an agency that exists to protect competition of the broadband market in which 98 percent of customers receive their service from either the telephone company or the cable company, if they have that choice at all,” Public Knowledge President Gigi Sohn said in an e-mail. “There are no market forces at work here, much as Chairman Majoras wishes there to be.”

The FTC will host a conference from Nov. 6 to 8 focusing on protecting consumers in an era of converging technologies, Majoras also announced. The conference, called Protecting Consumers in the Next Tech-Ade, will focus on emerging trends, applications, products, services and technology issues in the next decade, she said.

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